Being a gamophobic,an individual who fears commitment, I always wondered why marriages are so hyped. Typical Indian daddy dialogue : “Apne ghar jayegi toh essa karegi” has always pricked me a little inside. Many times we ignore, other times we get into petty fights. So after hours of scratching my head, “live-in-relationship” popped up. Sounds real simple to do, I know, but even in 2012 , live in relationships are a ” Haww! ” factor in the Indian society. You may say I’m young and naive, I agree. But tell me isn’t it better to be in bed alone rather than having a pillow separating your partner just to make sure you don’t make contact in the middle of the night? Marriage kills the romance . The feeling of being with someone can’t be killed by a long term commitment, can it?
Two people. Two careers. One house. NO marriage. In my opinion, the most convenient way to be with the person you love.
kya IDEA h madam ji :P
ReplyDeleteGood one
ReplyDeleteThank you! :)
ReplyDeletecompletely true... But in India will take some will power to actually walk that path... Searching for such a soul mate but evry gal directly or indirectly has the first question "will you marry me?" even on a lil bit of flirting... Sigh!!!
ReplyDeleteDear confused dude,the secret of making this work is finding a partner who understand you and is ready to live with you, without a marriage certificate. So go out, find that girl and live happily ever after! :D
ReplyDeleteI dont agree, If you think you have found the guy with whom you wanna spend the rest of your life, marriage or no marriage makes no difference.
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